1. The church should not be engaged in acting as agents of the state for the purpose of solemnizing marriages. Churches should only be doing religious ceremonies that have no binding power with the state. Pastors/officiants should not be signing marriage licenses on behalf of the state. When they do, they invite government control. 2. Gay money spends just as well as straight money. Bake the cake, go to the wedding, befriend the gay couple, and love them to Jesus. Or, just write "God hates fags" on top of their cake. I think this is a false dilemma that the evangelical church has created for itself.