So, I often hear people say we should forgive others when they wrong us because it releases bitterness and anger from our lives when we do so. Basically, it benefits us emotionally, spiritually, and even physically (by reducing stress, which affects our bodies) when we forgive. That makes me wonder, then. Is it kind of selfish to forgive others? I mean, if we're doing it for US, isn't that the definition of "selfish?"